From Shattered to Whole: My Journey Through Separation, Divorce, and Healing


Introduction:

Welcome to my corner of the internet! If you're navigating the messy, emotional, and sometimes hilarious world of separation and divorce, you're in good company. I'm thrilled to share my story, struggles, and triumphs with you.


The Journey Begins:

In March of 2023, in a very traumatic turn of events, my husband and I parted ways.  In the blink of an eye, my world was turned upside-down. The separation I never saw coming shook me to my core, leaving me to navigate uncharted territory and question everything I thought I knew about love, family, and myself.  As I struggled to find my footing, I realized this unexpected turn of events was also an opportunity for growth, transformation, and rediscovery. I've since experienced a rollercoaster of emotions - from shock and denial to fear, anger, sadness, and eventually, acceptance. But here's the thing: we are not alone in this wild ride.



Finding Humor in the Chaos:

Who says you can't find humor in heartache? I've discovered that laughter is the best medicine (after coffee, of course!)! Like that time my son gifted me a Siberian Husky for Mother's Day - because what's more relaxing than a furry, high-energy stress ball that sheds enough to knit a new dog?! Or when I unleashed my inner crafty-crazy and created a birdbath using (ahem) "interesting" glue choices. Laughter has been my trusty sidekick, sanity-saver, and occasional excuse for devouring an entire pail of ice cream while watching comedians on Netflix before heading to bed.




Lessons Learned:

Through this journey, I have discovered valuable lessons about myself, relationships, and resilience. I've learned that:

- I'm stronger than I thought (but also weaker - it's a weird balance)
- Coffee is the answer to most problems (except panic attacks, perhaps)
- Support from loved ones, strangers, and the internet is crucial




What to Expect:

In this blog, I'll share my experiences, insights, and opinions on topics like:

- Navigating single parenthood (and all the extra responsibilities)
- Finding your new normal (whatever that means)
- Learning to love yourself (again, or for the first time)
- And more!




Conclusion:

If you're looking for a space to laugh, cry, and roll your eyes in solidarity, you're in the right place. Join me on this wild, beautiful journey, and let's navigate the ups and downs together!  Feel free to subscribe or leave a comment. Stay tuned for more posts, and thank you for being part of my community!

© 2024 AKeenPerspective SDKeen

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